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TMI Tuesday: October 25, 2011

Posted on October 24, 2011 by TMI Tuesday blog

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A fun random image to go along with some fun random questions

1. Name 5 things you did more of before social networking (facebook, myspace, twitter, etc.)?  baked, read, worked, watched tv, cleaned house

2. Your house is on fire, what do you grab as you run out?  As many scrapbooks as I could

3. Are you a morning person or a night owl? most definitely a night owl.

a. What time did you go to bed last night? 12:43

b. What time did you wake up today? 6:05

4. A kid comes up to you and kicks you in the shin, what do you do? ask him why he thought he needed to do that

5. What three things do you never leave the house without? phone, keys and clothes

Bonus: Name a place that you visited last week that you’ve never visited before. Briefly tell us about the visit.  A winery about 2 hours from where I live. Tasted a little wine, ate a little food, and had a good time.

TMI Tuesday -- Tell Me More About You

TMI Tuesday -- Tell Me More About You

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1. “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours”…What is it that you will show me? My mind. I always find that the most interesting part of a person. So I'd rather see that than anything else.

2. What was the last thing you regret buying? That Snickers candy bar I ate last week.

3. How happy are you? 1 = not happy at all  to  5 = very happy -- Depends on the day of the week. Am currently separated from my spouse and divorce filing will be soon. So I have good days and bad but am hoping the good will soon outweigh the bad.

4. Last night, what did you go to bed thinking about? Someone special being in my life. A new life with a new house and happiness.

5. Tell us something that made you happy this past week or made you think “that’s cool!”  Someone actually cooked a meal for me. Even with the separation I go back to the house every night to cook supper for my son and his dad. But one night I couldn't do it because I was out of town and a friend actually cooked for me. It was the most wonderful thing I have experienced in a long time.

Bonus: What is your favorite mark of punctuation? Why? Question mark -- just simply because I am very curious and like to ask questions.

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Life has been hard

Have been lost for so long now I don't even know where to start.

Husband and I were having problems -- nothing new here.

Been seeing a counselor -- Going anywhere, improving the relationship -- don't think so, but still trying.

Last week decided it would be better if we didn't live together for a few months. To give each other space. Give us both time to thinking about what we really wanted. Both of us agreed. I moved out. That was Monday.

Tuesday before 8:30 a.m. got two phone calls and three text messages from him. By 10 p.m. had had 8 calls and 6 texts excluding the ones before 8:30 a.m. So much for space. See I had taken the day off work and he wasn't for sure where I was or who I was with so he was checking on me throughout the day. Yes that is what I live with. Had taken the day off so I could have some time to myself because I knew moving out was going to be a very emotional day for me even though it was my suggestion. Didn't want to be at work all weepy eyed and all emotional. People just don't get to see me that way. But all that from him just added to the stress.

Sunday things blew up again. I had gone to spend the night at a friend's house because I just needed to get out of town. Got a call at 7:12 a.m. accusing me of being with someone. Saying I evidently had made my decision about the divorce and was told that he would be seeing a lawyer on Monday. Told him he was right I had decided. It didn't hit me until that particular moment, but I think it has been time for me to move on for a very long time. And getting yelled at for being gone from my room -- for doing what I wanted to do -- that was the straw that broke this camel's back.

So today I feel better and look forward to moving ahead. Know it will be tough, but at least I am moving again and not stuck neck deep in the rut I was in.

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

This week’s TMI Tuesday idea is from Heelsnstocking

1. What’s the worst reason you have been given for breaking up? I really like you, but I just need to be me.

2. What’s the worst reason you gave, to someone, for breaking up? I don't know if I have ever really given many reasons. I don't much like fights, etc. so most of the time just cut off all communication with no explanation.

3. Have you ever engineered the end of a relationship e.g doing something you know will put the other person off? If yes, what did you do? I had one boyfriend who was a neat freak. So I would leave my clothes etc laying around the house. What was I thinking. If I had stayed with him at least now I would have a clean house -- well suppose that will never be the case -- LOL

4. Have you ever stayed with a partner just because you could not bear to end it? Yes, that is my situation now. But am building up the courage to end it.

5. Have you ever encouraged a friend to end a relationship? What happened? Are you still friends? No. I always figured it was their decision to make not mine. One never knows what goes on in a person's head or heart. We only see what what we want to see and don't fully see the entire picture so until I can do that I keep my mouth shut.

Bonus: Have you ever been the cause of a relationship to end? Tell us about it.  Not that I'm aware of.